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I Just Said Goodbye To My Two Best Trucks Because I’m A Family Man Now

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My rapid transition from The Singlest Man In America to a husband and father and homeowner means I must do something I rarely had to when I was single and snatching every sub-$3000 manual transmission rustbucket off Craigslist: make sacrifices. And offered at the altar of the family-man gods this past month were two of my favorite vehicles: My 1989 Chevy K1500 and my Jeep J10. I feel weird about it.

It’s amazing how the human mind can adapt to vastly new situations. In the span of 2.5 years, I went from being perpetually single and owning a bunch of rusty junkers in a rental shack in Troy, Michigan, to getting married to a great woman, having a hilariously cute child, and now moving into a 100-year-old house. Talk about a total 180!

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Such a 180 required a significant adaptation in my mindset — one that, I’ll admit, remains a work in progress. You see, for pretty much my whole life up until about a year ago or so, I acted impulsively. If I saw a car I liked, I bought it; in fact, I created the mantra “Buy First, Think Later” because that was actually my philosophy for well over a decade. The result is that I’ve owned some really stellar automobiles, from my 1965 Plymouth Valiant winter beater to my 1994 Jeep Grand Cherokee “Holy Grail” to my 1958 Willys FC-170 to 1948 Willys CJ-2A to my Lexus LX470 to my Chevy Tracker and on and on.

Two of my favorite vehicles I’ve ever owned have been trucks, namely these two:

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The most recent purchase was my 1989 Chevy K1500, a manual transmission, 350 V8-powered extended cab 4×4 without a spec of rust and only 130,000 miles on the odometer. It helped my wife and me move across town, and overall was just a phenomenal machine. Sure, it had a cracked windshield, a broken odometer, no headliner, an engine that bucked under heavy loads, and rough paint, but it was still an absolutely phenomenal pickup truck, especially for the $4,900 I paid for it.

But now it’s gone.

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Also gone is my 1985 Jeep J10, a vehicle I owned since I started as a car journalist back in 2015. That’s over a decade! This is my most interesting car, and definitely my dream truck. But I’ve had to come to grips with reality:

First, even though I have the truck tagged in Michigan, something about the truck not being registered in CA makes me feel… weird. I live here, so technically my car should be registered here. And though I haven’t tried getting my J10 through smog, there’s no point. The catalytic converter has been rattling for years, and more importantly, someone pulled the original carburetor and all the emissions equipment off the engine years ago.

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I have no interest in choking my engine up with the original emissions equipment, and I have no time to do an engine swap.

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Just as important is the rust situation. The J10 is from North Carolina and spent most of its life on the farm. So, though it doesn’t have much rust, it does have holes where dirt collected, and that was in the door jambs and on the back of the cab (where dirt was trapped between that cab and the rear bed-cap). The floors, too, have holes. You can see some of the rust in the video I shot way back in 2015:

Suffice it to say: The rust hasn’t gotten better since that video was shot, and in truth, though Southern California is a great place if you want to prevent your vehicle from rusting, if your vehicle is already rusty, the heat only catalyzes the rusting process.

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In the past, I would have just kept both trucks, or the very least, one of them. But now there’s opportunity cost that’s impossible to ignore. That Chevy truck sold for $7250; how can I have that money tied up in that truck that I rarely use, when maybe I could use that money to fix my house’s plumbing or invest in my son’s future? The J10 is a vehicle I love, and I do enjoy driving around in it, but when am I going to find time to fix the rust? Am I really going to swap in an engine to get it through smog? Where is that time going to come from? I already have two personal Jeep projects, my manual Jeep ZJ and my original Jeep XJ — two vehicles that are more important to me than the J10. To take on the J10 as a restoration project on top of those is just unrealistic.

The reality is that, in the context of my new life as a sole breadwinner-father-homeowner, expenses require me to be more thoughtful about tying up money in my cars. “Buy First, Think Later” doesn’t work anymore. And what’s more, time is now at a premium, which is to say: I have none.

To me, what made sense was to part ways with the J10 since I just don’t have time to fix it. I still wanted a Jeep truck, though, as I love them. So I parted ways with the Chevy as well and purchased my 1992 Jeep Comanche, which — with a new $350 catalytic converter and another $300 in exhaust work — got through smog without issue.

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And so, my beloved J10 is now gone (Well, technically it’s not sold yet; it’s in Michigan awaiting a buyer). The Chevy is sold, and I have now successfully replaced two trucks with one. I’ll miss the Chevy, because it was deeply competent. And of course, I’ll miss the unmatched handsome looks of that J10.

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Though I’m sad about it, I welcome my new responsibilities. Plus, I think my fleet — a Comanche, a YJ, an i3, two boxy Jeep SUV projects, and my brother’s Mustang — is still more than enough to keep the car-geek in me satisfied. And for that I am immensely grateful, even if it was tough to say goodbye to these two fantastic pickups.

Top graphic image: David Tracy

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Dan Bee
Dan Bee
16 hours ago

Wise move, David. Onward.

James Colangelo
James Colangelo
20 hours ago

An update on the military Jeep would be pretty cool!

Commercial Cook
Commercial Cook
1 day ago

sorry DT but its time to stop this “I am a family man” theme already. even as a family guy…I Heard you.

now let’s go back to washing parts ion the dishwasher.

kids will be fine!

Jdoubledub
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Jdoubledub
1 day ago

Can we get an architectural tour of your sweet art deco era house?

NDPilot
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NDPilot
18 hours ago
Reply to  Jdoubledub

When I read the line about the 100 year old house my thought was, so he traded rusty cars for a “rusty” house! I can imagine the projects awaiting there, I have a 12 year old house that seems to “offer” no end of projects and maintenance…

RAMbunctious
RAMbunctious
1 day ago

I’m just still amazed/impressed that you were able to buy a home in the LA area. Good for you!

I’ve been following your writing for years, and it’s been great seeing the positive progression of your life.

Now finish that damn ZJ!

Sam S
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Sam S
1 day ago

I only have space for 1 car and 1 motorcycle at a time, but get the urge for something new frequently, so I have a self-imposed goal to make at least one lifelong memory with every vehicle before I allow myself to move on.
It could be a big roadtrip, a track day, a momentous wrenching project, or even just a milestone like using it to move house.
That way, every vehicle has a story and I can move on to the next adventure.

Jb996
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Jb996
1 day ago

Phrases I never expected to see in a David Tracy article:
“I’ve had to come to grips with reality.”
“just unrealistic.”

While we’ll all miss the crazy builds. I’m happy for him in his new phase of life.

(except there seems to be a build-from-scratch WW2 Jeep coming, so I guess the “crazy builds” aren’t all gone!)

Dudeoutwest
Dudeoutwest
1 day ago

It’s been fun watching you grow up, David. I mean that in the best possible way.

ADDvanced
ADDvanced
1 day ago

I’m just here for the ZJ build. Show the world what this chassis can do, PLEASE! 🙂

RAMbunctious
RAMbunctious
1 day ago
Reply to  ADDvanced

YESSSSS!!!

Man With A Reliable Jeep
Man With A Reliable Jeep
1 day ago

DT, there’s a season for everything. Some of my favorite cars that I’ve loved and lost have left me with some of my strongest memories. It’s funny, we often perceive ourselves as a snapshot of how we are at a certain age, then become mystified when we watch ourselves maturing and our priorities changing. It’s not a bad thing, it’s just different. And even if it’s not an easy one, you are making the right choice.

P.S. I saw your post on Reddit and somehow managed to keep my mouth shut! 😉

That Guy with the Sunbird
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That Guy with the Sunbird
1 day ago

I’d have a FLEET of old GM FWD shitboxes if I could. If I had the funds and the space/time, that is. But, I’m a husband, a dad of two young kids, and I have a full-time job.

So, my little Sunbird is a fleet by itself. It’s better than nothing! We do what we can, right?

Matt Sexton
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Matt Sexton
1 day ago

I think you should just be honest and have made the headline, “I just said goodbye to my two best trucks because I’ve come to realize nicer stuff is better.”

Blaming it on being a “family man” now is just horseshit, sorry. Lots of family men have multiple hobby cars. The reality is the Jeep isn’t nice enough to restore and the Chevy, as awesome as GMT400’s are, is pretty rough from your description of it.

You’ve just reached a point in your life when you have a more discerning eye for what constitutes a worthy car and what’s just going to end up being a pain in your ass. It just happens to have coincided with your having formed a family.

Hangover Grenade
Hangover Grenade
1 day ago
Reply to  Matt Sexton

Having a hobby car with a 10-year-old or a 16-year-old is a hell of a lot different than having one with a newborn.

TheDrunkenWrench
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TheDrunkenWrench
1 day ago

Can confirm. Well, she’s only 6 now. But it’s way easier to commit time now.

Matt Sexton
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Matt Sexton
1 day ago
Reply to  David Tracy

As the father of a 12-year-old girl myself, I certainly understand that. But it’s not like having a wife and a daughter precludes you from owning these vehicles. It’s probably a personal thing but it really grates me when I hear the phrase “I’m a family man now” attached to things like “so I had to sell the motorcycle” or “so I had to stop fishing.” There’s no rules on this stuff. You can still be a great dad without giving up the things that make you you.

My personal take on it is that if you don’t have the space or time for something, then that’s a whole separate reason than a person happening to have a spouse or a kid, and I just wish people would be honest about that. In your case, the Commanche is going to do for you almost everything that these two trucks would have, so they really aren’t needed anymore and you don’t have space for them. The rest of your article kind of explains all this, so just say that in the headline. Implying “I’m a family man now so I had to” in big letters at the top is just a disservice to yourself and your family.

Last edited 1 day ago by Matt Sexton
Matt Sexton
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Matt Sexton
1 day ago
Reply to  David Tracy

David, please know I love you guys and have always appreciated your stories and exploits. I think you and I basically agree here.

Like I said, the wording of it is a personal thing with me mostly. The reality is you (like most of us) are resource limited, and that’s a whole different thing than married. 😉

Mouse
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Mouse
1 day ago
Reply to  Matt Sexton

Sure but I think the implication – specifically in David’s statements, not the cliche itself – is “the resource limitation exists at present due to a need to spend money on people besides just himself”.

RAMbunctious
RAMbunctious
1 day ago
Reply to  David Tracy

I don’t have kids, but I think for a parent, introducing your hobbies to your kids must be awesome. Once the kiddo/kiddos get a little older you can teach them to wrench and offroad. Most of my high school age memories of my dad that stand out are when we were wrenching on my squarebody. (why did I ever sell that thing???)

NDPilot
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NDPilot
17 hours ago
Reply to  RAMbunctious

…”but I think for a parent, introducing your hobbies to your kids must be awesome.”
This is my biggest justification for digging in my heels whenever the conversation comes to getting rid of more projects, I already see interest from my 4 year old, in fact she woke me up in the middle of the night recently to tell me she had a dream about her and her friends riding around in a project truck I brought home recently but have barely had time to touch, then she said we need to hurry and get it fixed up!

NDPilot
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NDPilot
17 hours ago
Reply to  David Tracy

I’ll second that opinion. There’s a balance that leans towards parental responsibility when babies/toddlers are involved. I’ve had to downsize my fleet since I got married/had kids. The closest comparison I can make to David’s situation is selling my 2nd Gen diesel ram “forever truck” for a newer truck that can comfortably fit 2 car seats and doesn’t leave the babies smelling like diesel exhaust at the end of a trip. I got rid of a couple of other functional vehicles that I couldn’t justify the time and expense of keeping, but have also acquired a couple more projects that I still don’t know when I’m going to have time to work on, so maybe I’m not the best example…

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