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I Just Said Goodbye To My Two Best Trucks Because I’m A Family Man Now

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My rapid transition from The Singlest Man In America to a husband and father and homeowner means I must do something I rarely had to when I was single and snatching every sub-$3000 manual transmission rustbucket off Craigslist: make sacrifices. And offered at the altar of the family-man gods this past month were two of my favorite vehicles: My 1989 Chevy K1500 and my Jeep J10. I feel weird about it.

It’s amazing how the human mind can adapt to vastly new situations. In the span of 2.5 years, I went from being perpetually single and owning a bunch of rusty junkers in a rental shack in Troy, Michigan, to getting married to a great woman, having a hilariously cute child, and now moving into a 100-year-old house. Talk about a total 180!

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Such a 180 required a significant adaptation in my mindset — one that, I’ll admit, remains a work in progress. You see, for pretty much my whole life up until about a year ago or so, I acted impulsively. If I saw a car I liked, I bought it; in fact, I created the mantra “Buy First, Think Later” because that was actually my philosophy for well over a decade. The result is that I’ve owned some really stellar automobiles, from my 1965 Plymouth Valiant winter beater to my 1994 Jeep Grand Cherokee “Holy Grail” to my 1958 Willys FC-170 to 1948 Willys CJ-2A to my Lexus LX470 to my Chevy Tracker and on and on.

Two of my favorite vehicles I’ve ever owned have been trucks, namely these two:

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The most recent purchase was my 1989 Chevy K1500, a manual transmission, 350 V8-powered extended cab 4×4 without a spec of rust and only 130,000 miles on the odometer. It helped my wife and me move across town, and overall was just a phenomenal machine. Sure, it had a cracked windshield, a broken odometer, no headliner, an engine that bucked under heavy loads, and rough paint, but it was still an absolutely phenomenal pickup truck, especially for the $4,900 I paid for it.

But now it’s gone.

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Also gone is my 1985 Jeep J10, a vehicle I owned since I started as a car journalist back in 2015. That’s over a decade! This is my most interesting car, and definitely my dream truck. But I’ve had to come to grips with reality:

First, even though I have the truck tagged in Michigan, something about the truck not being registered in CA makes me feel… weird. I live here, so technically my car should be registered here. And though I haven’t tried getting my J10 through smog, there’s no point. The catalytic converter has been rattling for years, and more importantly, someone pulled the original carburetor and all the emissions equipment off the engine years ago.

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I have no interest in choking my engine up with the original emissions equipment, and I have no time to do an engine swap.

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Just as important is the rust situation. The J10 is from North Carolina and spent most of its life on the farm. So, though it doesn’t have much rust, it does have holes where dirt collected, and that was in the door jambs and on the back of the cab (where dirt was trapped between that cab and the rear bed-cap). The floors, too, have holes. You can see some of the rust in the video I shot way back in 2015:

Suffice it to say: The rust hasn’t gotten better since that video was shot, and in truth, though Southern California is a great place if you want to prevent your vehicle from rusting, if your vehicle is already rusty, the heat only catalyzes the rusting process.

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In the past, I would have just kept both trucks, or the very least, one of them. But now there’s opportunity cost that’s impossible to ignore. That Chevy truck sold for $7250; how can I have that money tied up in that truck that I rarely use, when maybe I could use that money to fix my house’s plumbing or invest in my son’s future? The J10 is a vehicle I love, and I do enjoy driving around in it, but when am I going to find time to fix the rust? Am I really going to swap in an engine to get it through smog? Where is that time going to come from? I already have two personal Jeep projects, my manual Jeep ZJ and my original Jeep XJ — two vehicles that are more important to me than the J10. To take on the J10 as a restoration project on top of those is just unrealistic.

The reality is that, in the context of my new life as a sole breadwinner-father-homeowner, expenses require me to be more thoughtful about tying up money in my cars. “Buy First, Think Later” doesn’t work anymore. And what’s more, time is now at a premium, which is to say: I have none.

To me, what made sense was to part ways with the J10 since I just don’t have time to fix it. I still wanted a Jeep truck, though, as I love them. So I parted ways with the Chevy as well and purchased my 1992 Jeep Comanche, which — with a new $350 catalytic converter and another $300 in exhaust work — got through smog without issue.

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And so, my beloved J10 is now gone (Well, technically it’s not sold yet; it’s in Michigan awaiting a buyer). The Chevy is sold, and I have now successfully replaced two trucks with one. I’ll miss the Chevy, because it was deeply competent. And of course, I’ll miss the unmatched handsome looks of that J10.

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Though I’m sad about it, I welcome my new responsibilities. Plus, I think my fleet — a Comanche, a YJ, an i3, two boxy Jeep SUV projects, and my brother’s Mustang — is still more than enough to keep the car-geek in me satisfied. And for that I am immensely grateful, even if it was tough to say goodbye to these two fantastic pickups.

Top graphic image: David Tracy

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Greg
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Greg
3 days ago

Does the new home have a garage or an area to build a shop? I think wrenching in your own heated garage, would be nail in the coffin for Detroit Dave(not saying that negatively).

1978fiatspyderfan
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1978fiatspyderfan
3 days ago
Reply to  Greg

So you suggest a heated garage in California? I’d prefer AC.

Greg
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Greg
2 days ago

What type of pick a fight useless comment is this? He was in Detroit where it’s frozen and cold. He would then be in a warm garage, I would think in the winter, even in CA, he wouldn’t need AC. But you do you and be pedantic.

StillNotATony
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StillNotATony
3 days ago

Okay, here’s what you need to do, DT.

Get into motorcycles.

You can generally 4-5 of them in the space of one car. They get great gas mileage. Used ones are generally cheap to buy and SUPER cheap to insure. You could get an off road bike, a fun cruiser, and maybe something with a sidecar and take the whole family!

Plus, you live in SoCal! The weather there is always awesome, right? Right?!? THERE ARE ABSOLUTELY NO FLAWS TO THIS PLAN!!!

Cody Pendant
Cody Pendant
3 days ago
Reply to  StillNotATony

And lane splitting isn’t illegal in California so it’s easier to get through bad traffic. I’ve heard LA has some

1978fiatspyderfan
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1978fiatspyderfan
3 days ago
Reply to  Cody Pendant

Having lived out in California I must say I figured out how a 65 mph road became referred to as a PARKway.

1978fiatspyderfan
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1978fiatspyderfan
3 days ago
Reply to  StillNotATony

New husband and father and new to motorcycles and rusty questionable vehicles. Nope no flaws here.

Harvey Park At Traffic Lights
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Harvey Park At Traffic Lights
3 days ago
Reply to  StillNotATony

Found Mercedes’s alt account.

No Kids, Lots of Cars, Waning Bikes
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No Kids, Lots of Cars, Waning Bikes
2 days ago
Reply to  StillNotATony

I lived in L.A. and loved riding a motorcyle everywhere. Traffic was (almost) never a concern.

But L.A. is not the place to learn if a bike is to be your primary mode of transportation. You need to be fully confident in your own skill (and know the machine well) before being thrown into the ThunderdomeⓇ of splitting lanes on the 405 and 101.

Aaronaut
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Aaronaut
3 days ago

Must have been hard, but good job!

Ishkabibbel
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Ishkabibbel
3 days ago

Welcome to responsible parenthood.

JDE
JDE
3 days ago

I think the hardest part for many of us is the whole selling process these days. fewer places to get the ads out, except maybe FB Marketplace and so many scammers. Or maybe that is just my excuse for taking 12 months to just post one of my vehicles that I feel like I should sell….sometimes.

1978fiatspyderfan
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1978fiatspyderfan
3 days ago
Reply to  JDE

Brings me back to a revenue generating idea I have for the Autopian classified ads. Buy a car, sell a car, parts for sale, parts needed, heck one ad could cost like one month of velour.

Nick Fortes
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Nick Fortes
3 days ago

You still have more than enough vehicles lol.

I don't hate manual transmissions
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I don't hate manual transmissions
3 days ago
Reply to  David Tracy

Step 1 is admitting there’s (still) a problem. 🙂

Cody Pendant
Cody Pendant
3 days ago

I sold a truck that fit my whole family to replace it with a truck that doesn’t, because I’m a family man now.
Here, I fixed your headline:
“I Just Said Goodbye To My Two Best Trucks Because I’m A Californian Jeep Man”

Cody Pendant
Cody Pendant
3 days ago
Reply to  David Tracy

My point was you getting the Jeep truck and selling the other trucks wasn’t because you’re a family man. It’s because that’s what you wanted and what made sense. It probably would have happened if you were single. It wasn’t a dig at you at all.

1978fiatspyderfan
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1978fiatspyderfan
3 days ago
Reply to  David Tracy

That is why you are DT. Buying fixing and holding for the right buyer

Urban Runabout
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Urban Runabout
3 days ago

It’s a step in the right direction.

Icouldntfindaclevername
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Icouldntfindaclevername
3 days ago

Stay at home parent (Dad in my case) is the way to go if you can afford it. It was amazing to spend that time with my son.

Reducing your fleet will also reduce stress, but the WWII Jeep is probably adding stress back 🙂
Good luck David!

1978fiatspyderfan
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1978fiatspyderfan
3 days ago
Reply to  David Tracy

I still say posting needed parts and let the membership help you find them couldn’t hurt

No Kids, Lots of Cars, Waning Bikes
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No Kids, Lots of Cars, Waning Bikes
3 days ago

I am quite interested to see how this Michigan sale plays out. With transport across the country twice it is almost definitely a losing proposition. We can ignore one of the moves, though, I think but I still wonder about the returns on sending a car elsewhere to sale vs taking less money without moving the thing.

1978fiatspyderfan
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1978fiatspyderfan
3 days ago
Reply to  David Tracy

Any thoughts of the Autopian buying a car transport and making a fortune by moving employees cars, maybe members as well.

Mouse
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Mouse
2 days ago

I thought part of the reasoning was keeping it in CA ran the risk of not finding a buyer at all?

LTDScott
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LTDScott
3 days ago

I still think it would have been more wise to keep the Chevy instead of buying the Comanche as it does everything you need as a truck better (and has A/C), but I get it. Buying the Comanche was the best compromise between old and new David, and you’ve already proven it can haul what you need.

Somehow at 45 years old with a wife (but no kids) I’ve reached the “buy first, think later” stage. As I’ve previously posted, my friend decided to part with his “holy grail” Ford Durango that has been parked for 20+ years. I’ve always wanted one and my wife amazingly convinced me to buy it, so I did. But then I realized that the body is pretty rough and will take a lot of work to get in nice shape, so I decided it would be easier to swap all the pickup stuff only a cleaner shell, so I found a cheap Ford Fairmont Futura locally that I’m currently getting running again and will eventually swap the pickup bed into. I also decided that I wanted to swap an 83-86 LTD nose onto it, but they’re not easy to find anymore. I saw an LTD roller for sale in Arizona and bought it sight unseen, storing it at my friend’s place. So now in the course of 3 months I have purchased 3 non-running unregistered ’80s Fords. How did I get here?

1978fiatspyderfan
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1978fiatspyderfan
3 days ago
Reply to  LTDScott

A new Autopian crazy nope contributer

Rollin Hand
Rollin Hand
2 days ago
Reply to  LTDScott

If you hadn’t bought the LTD….Fox body….you could have had a Mustang nose.

LTDScott
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LTDScott
2 days ago
Reply to  Rollin Hand

I’ve seen that before and I’m not a fan, whereas the LTD nose looks like it was factory.

https://www.curbsideclassic.com/wp-content/comment-image/479995.jpg

Rollin Hand
Rollin Hand
2 days ago
Reply to  LTDScott

Wow — from the looks of that it should have been factory.

Nick Kuteli
Nick Kuteli
3 days ago

I’ll miss the stories regarding that manual K1500! But think about it – you’ll only like it more as time goes by.

79 Burb-man
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79 Burb-man
3 days ago

Never know what life will bring you next! There will be more trucks, more adventures, a built-from-scratch WWII Jeep. Vehicles for the kids! What should you be buying now, when it’s cheap, that will be fantastic for a teenage Cali kid to be driving x-teen years from now?! The opportunities are endless!

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3 days ago

I’ve decided to enjoy my last year of single life by purchasing an Evo IX as a daily driver. I’ll buy an actual reasonable daily driver someday.

Nlpnt
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Nlpnt
3 days ago

Sensible Japanese brand compact sedan.

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3 days ago
Reply to  Nlpnt

Yes, yes, it’s technically a Japanese economy car, but it was expensive, it is problematic, not very efficient, and getting more and more difficult to find parts for. Plus every time I take it somewhere she gives me a look that says: I know you like this car so I won’t actually say anything but the exhaust drone is driving me nuts.

Dolsh
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Dolsh
3 days ago

But it has 4 doors!

5VZ-F'Ever and Ever, Amen
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5VZ-F'Ever and Ever, Amen
3 days ago

First, even though I have the truck tagged in Michigan, something about the truck not being registered in CA makes me feel… weird. I live here, so technically my car should be registered here.

There is real risk with this now. CA has been cracking down on the Montana loophole thing and there’s a knock on effect for other out-of-state vehicles. CHP even has an online reporting (ie, narc) system for citizens.

LTDScott
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LTDScott
3 days ago

They’ve had the narc hotline for ages, and based on my experience reporting someone won’t have any effect.

1978fiatspyderfan
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1978fiatspyderfan
3 days ago

Well if he only had one car lived in California and had it registered elsewhere yes problem. But this is my Michigan car I have several California cars registered and paid for in California, and this wouldn’t pass in California anyhow so suck it.

Mikkeli
Mikkeli
3 days ago

It is never too early to stash a honda fl250 for the spawn.

DialMforMiata
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DialMforMiata
3 days ago

If it’s any consolation, that’s a damn nice Comanche.

Last edited 3 days ago by DialMforMiata
Michael Beranek
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Michael Beranek
3 days ago

Funny how that Mustang just keeps hanging around. Is he ever gonna store it at his own house?

Dead Elvis, Inc.
Dead Elvis, Inc.
3 days ago

The brother in question lived in Japan for quite a while, IIRC, not sure if he’s still there.

DialMforMiata
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DialMforMiata
3 days ago

Insert “shower ramen” joke here.

Dead Elvis, Inc.
Dead Elvis, Inc.
3 days ago
Reply to  DialMforMiata

so many pixels

Harvey Park At Traffic Lights
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Harvey Park At Traffic Lights
3 days ago

Hong Kong, iirc.

Dead Elvis, Inc.
Dead Elvis, Inc.
2 days ago

Yeah, I mis-remembered. Thanks.

Stryker_T
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Stryker_T
3 days ago

pretty sure if his brother has a house, it isn’t in the same country the mustang is currently at.

Nlpnt
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Nlpnt
3 days ago

I think it lives on the Galpin back lot, and given how they market that business having at least one driver-quality early Mustang out behind the service department only adds cred.

Kleinlowe
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Kleinlowe
3 days ago

Congratulations, David! You’ve finally made the journey that every I and every other gearhead that moves to the west coast eventually completes: Selling the rusty shitbox you brought with you and replacing it with a rust-free shitbox you found locally.

1978fiatspyderfan
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1978fiatspyderfan
3 days ago
Reply to  Kleinlowe

Having lived in California, Arizona, and Texas I truly believe there is a car business model of having a car transport buy cars in the west and sell in the east.

Totally not a robot
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Totally not a robot
3 days ago

My former boss kept her truck registered in Florida (and even renewed it!) even while she was living and working in California. I was sorely tempted to report her, but even I ain’t that petty or a snitch.

10001010
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10001010
3 days ago

I know how hard it is to get rid of a vehicle that you love. I remember watching my Talon being loaded on a trailer and towed away and it tore me up even though it hadn’t run in over 10 years.
But…can we call this your Mustang now?

Sid Bridge
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Sid Bridge
3 days ago

2016 David: You again?
2026 David: I sold the J10, so I just came back to see you and it while the whole thing is happy and new.
2016 David: You sold the J10?! How could you?! Look at it! It’s gorgeous.
2026 David: You know the score. Family. Responsibility. Fiscal competence.
2016 David: I get it. You’ve still got a nice fleet, I’m sure.
2026 David: Yeah, but I also had to sell my ’89 Chevy 1500.
2016 David: I mean, we all make sacrifices and… Wait, why did we buy a Chevy? Do I even know you?

Totally not a robot
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Totally not a robot
3 days ago
Reply to  Sid Bridge

2026 David: You know, my BMW and her Lexus just make too much sense as daily drivers for a family.

Stryker_T
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Stryker_T
3 days ago

2016 David: *clutches pearls* I have no future!
2026 David: trust me, it’s so great over here.

Last edited 3 days ago by Stryker_T
Data
Data
3 days ago
Reply to  Stryker_T

2026 David: Shower Spaghetti is the future.
2016 David: ???

Stryker_T
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Stryker_T
3 days ago
Reply to  Data

I was about to add a shower spaghetti response too! lol

1978fiatspyderfan
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1978fiatspyderfan
3 days ago
Reply to  Data

I think Bathtub Lasagna will replace shower spaghetti like electronic ignition replaced carburetors.

Nlpnt
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Nlpnt
3 days ago
Reply to  Stryker_T

Never mind 2010 David who probably thought he’d have worked his way up to brass-hat company Mopars for himself and his then hypothetical wife by now.

1978fiatspyderfan
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1978fiatspyderfan
3 days ago
Reply to  David Tracy

So as a long time confirmed bachelor, prior to marriage, do you have a preferred oil level for masturcar use?

1978fiatspyderfan
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1978fiatspyderfan
3 days ago
Reply to  Sid Bridge

Ok but David you did negotiate visitation rights right?

Caleb Jacobs
Caleb Jacobs
3 days ago

I feel you, bruv! It’s a hard step to make, but I’d say it’s the right one. Enjoy your fam and make memories that’ll last!

Moonball96
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Moonball96
3 days ago

I’m honestly at a point in life that I find watching your transformation so much more enlightening than watching the vehicles being brought back to life (although I still like those too don’t get me wrong)

JDE
JDE
3 days ago
Reply to  Moonball96

I miss the Junker rebuilds and road trips to be honest. But I understand the whole family and honestly age changes occurring with David.

El Chubbacabra
El Chubbacabra
3 days ago

When we leave some things behind, they work better as memories instead of lingering as irritations. It’s the way of the world, I suppose.
From one perpetually single man to the ex-one, I salute you, good sir.

Last edited 3 days ago by El Chubbacabra
KYFire
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KYFire
3 days ago
Reply to  El Chubbacabra

This is the truth. Holding on to things because they remind you of the “good” times will never be as good as those actual memories are.

At least he is learning earlier in life than I did.

Last edited 3 days ago by KYFire
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