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My Mom Is Mad At My Lawyer Wife Because She Drives A Tiny Toyota, What Car Should She Buy?

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Two years ago, my wife thought she made a sound decision when she bought a 2012 Scion iQ. In her eyes, the iQ was cute and fun like my Smart Fortwos, but should be reliable because it’s a Toyota. Unfortunately, not only has the car been a reliability disaster, but it seems nobody else thinks the car is cute and fun. My mom just revealed that she thinks Sheryl’s car is a massive disappointment and disrespectful to her profession (she’s a lawyer). Now, my wife is looking for a new car that fits her career a little better. What should she buy?

If you’ve been in the car community for long enough, you’re probably well aware of the concept of buying a cheap car that makes you look like you have money. In theory, this is especially handy if you work in a profession where you need to project a certain image, but you might not have the dough to buy a new ride for that purpose. I didn’t subscribe to that idea for a long time. I thought that if you bought a 20-year-old Mercedes-Benz, you wouldn’t be fooling anyone. I thought that you didn’t have to be a car enthusiast to deduce that someone’s driving an old car, no matter the badge that’s on it.

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Witnessing my wife’s experiences with her cars has taught me that the concept of “balling on a budget” is shockingly and confusingly accurate. When Sheryl drove a 2010 Toyota Prius, she was seen as a sort of environmentalist lawyer, and she got no complaints. Sheryl told me that she even blended in, as some lawyers do drive Prii and other hybrids because hybrids are green and trendy.

Mercedes Streeter

When Sheryl switched to the 2001 BMW 525iAT that we bought from our secret designer, the Bishop, her positive-image score spiked off the chart. Almost daily, she would get compliments about the BMW. There were several instances where guys offered her $5,000 on the spot for the wagon. It blew my mind because that BMW was a rustbucket that I had purchased for just $1,500 – but it did look really clean with tinted windows and fresh wax.

Everyone complimented the BMW, from Sheryl’s clients and opposing counsel to my family. Everyone sort of treated the BMW as a massive upgrade from the Prius. It was almost like Sheryl had won it big or something. Practically overnight, Sheryl was taken as seriously as those lawyers with the billboards and expensive suits, when all she had done was trade a decent hybrid for a cheap and rusty BMW. Clearly, people didn’t care. She really was balling on a budget.

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Mercedes Streeter

Unfortunately, the BMW’s rust advanced to the point where the car’s jacking points could no longer be used. Worse, driving it 40,000 miles in a single year did a number on the BMW’s engine. So, she decided to pass it on. In hindsight, this was the wrong decision. We could have fixed Wanda the BMW. Even worse, the guy who bought it ended up committing a hit and run with the vehicle after failing to register it for months. Guess who had to mop up that mess? Oh, and then the friend that we loaned the Prius to managed to destroy the car by ramming a deer.

The Cute Mistake

Sheryl found herself in the car market again, and this time, she decided to get weird with it. She adored driving my Smarts, but I warned her that Smarts are way too finicky to drive 40,000 miles a year without major headaches. Sheryl chose the next best thing, the car that was more or less a Smart, but by Toyota.

Mercedes Streeter

At the time, I thought it was an okay decision. The example she chose appeared to be in great shape with tons of life left in it. While I didn’t think it was a “lawyer car,” I also knew that Sheryl typically enjoys being underestimated. She sort of plays a character not unlike Peter Falk’s Columbo, and it’s amazing how well it works in real life.

So, she got the iQ, and at first, things were great. The car scored 40 mpg, everyone thought it was oh so cute, and we got a decent deal on it. At first, the car didn’t even give us any issues. It started every single time without failure, even when my own cars failed me. We then drove the iQ most of the length of Route 66, and the car was an absolute joy on that monster of a road trip.

Mercedes Streeter

Then, the house of cards began falling apart. We installed an aftermarket cruise control system, which eventually grew a hunger for accelerator pedals. The cruise control managed to kill not just one, but two accelerator pedals over the course of just 10 months.

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The problems only get more frustrating from there. The engine had a mystery issue of randomly sputtering and then shutting down while at idle. I replaced the spark plugs and coils, which fixed the issue. Now, the car has an intermittent rough idle. The engine stays running, but something is sometimes unhappy. I went through the work to put the old coils back in, and there was no change.

Update: The iQ has developed a new and fun problem. Last week, it blew both of its low-beam headlight bulbs at the same time. I replaced some somewhat crusty-ish headlight relays and the bulbs. Well, the bulbs just stopped working an hour ago, then came back to life 10 minutes ago. This is fine, totally fine.

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As of a couple of weeks ago, gas pedal number three has intermittent failures. This is concerning since we did have the cruise control uninstalled. Previous diagnosis seemingly confirmed that the cruise control killed the gas pedal. But that’s no longer a factor. What’s going on now?

This morning, the iQ presented a new issue when the heater refused to blow warm for 30 minutes of Sheryl’s freezing morning commute. The coolant looks great. Maybe the blend door got stuck? There’s more, from the incessant whining of the CVT and the rust that’s appearing in strange places, to the fact that it occasionally throws traction control errors.

In fairness, the Scion didn’t get like this all on its own. Sheryl crashed the iQ during the summer, and then crashed it again only three weeks ago. Many of these recent issues cropped up after that second crash.

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Everyone Hates The iQ

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Mercedes Streeter

Yet, it wasn’t exactly the unreliability that soured Sheryl’s relationship with her car. Over the past two years, we’ve witnessed how people who used to think of the car as something cute and novel have turned on the vehicle.

The same people who complimented the car or expressed wonder two years ago now call the car a total piece of junk. Clients think Sheryl is a joke because of the car, and opposing counsel have gone from underestimating Sheryl to just openly mocking her. Somehow worse is that Sheryl seems to now have a negative reputation. I cannot begin to type out what these people are actually saying, but they’re calling her a type of transphobic slur who drives the tiny piece of garbage. [Ed note: What is wrong with people? Gee whiz. – Pete]

This negative reputation has reached the point where she lost a lucrative contract, largely because of the car. Her own clients have cursed Sheryl out over her car. Mind you, Sheryl’s law practice is unique in that the client names the price they pay for her work. Many of these people do not pay for her services at all, but demand that she drive a new luxury car. Basically, she’s no longer Columbo.

But the worst sting came from the inside. Not only does Sheryl’s best friend want to commit violence against the iQ, but my mom spent a great portion of Christmas dinner dressing down Sheryl in front of everyone about why she thinks Sheryl’s car sucks.

Mercedes Streeter

Seriously, this conversation went on for longer than an hour, and my mom went hard. She said that, by driving the iQ, not only is Sheryl insulting me, but she’s disrespecting the family and me as a whole. Mom also said that if Sheryl cared about me and actually respected me, she’d drive a real lawyer car and make more money. This conversation would normally be way too personal to publish, but it hit me like a ton of bricks because it came out of the blue and was weirdly harsh. Long story short is that, apparently, over the past two years, my mom has lost respect for my wife because of the iQ.

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I defended Sheryl throughout this conversation. I have a fleet of crappy, weird cars. I am not disrespected by my wife choosing to drive a weird car. She’s a grown woman and can make her own choices with her own money. But Pandora’s box has been opened. The words that have been said cannot be taken back. It’s clear that everyone now hates the iQ.

Our conclusion is that the iQ is actively harming Sheryl on multiple fronts. She has been depressed about this, and I have been dealing with headache after headache. I honestly have never seen a car cause so much strife before. Yet, most people seem to agree that the iQ sucks. In fact, our very own readers have been saying it for over a year now.

We’ve made the decision to get a different car, but the question is: What car?

So Many Choices

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When I posed this question to The Autopian‘s staff and contributors, I used the qualifier that it should be somewhat “lawyer-like.” Ideally, I’d love to pay cash for this car, but that would mean a budget under $10,000. Financing also works, but Sheryl’s not looking to get into a loan on a $40,000 car anytime soon.

First out of the gate was Jason Torchinsky, who recommended a Scion xB. Or, specifically, he said that we should buy a dirt-cheap first-generation xB, and then pay someone to make it the most luxurious xB in the world.

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David Tracy was next, and his recommendation was a 1980 Subaru GL wagon. I’m not even sure what to do with this recommendation.

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Matt Hardigree returned us to reality with the recommendation for a Lincoln Town Car, but specifically one that isn’t black. The idea there is that Sheryl won’t look like a livery driver. Also, I guess she’d get to say that she’s a Lincoln lawyer?

Stephen Walter Gossin recommended a 2000s Jaguar on the account that they look great, are plenty luxurious, and can be had for dirt-cheap.

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My mom said Sheryl’s new car has to be high-end luxury. The wildcard is Sheryl’s best friend, a Honda fangirl, who recommended a mid-2010s Civic, an early 2010s Accord, or an Acura.

As far as Sheryl’s own picks, she wants something like a mid-2010s Subaru Legacy, an Infiniti G37, an Infiniti EX35, a Toyota Avalon, a Lexus LX470, a Lexus LS400, a mid-2010s Mazda3, a Hyundai Veloster, a Hyundai Genesis sedan, or another Toyota Prius. She also wants another BMW E39, but she’s reluctant since the last one didn’t go so well.

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The good news is that Sheryl’s mileage has gone down over the past two years. As of now, she puts about 25,000 miles a year on her car, an improvement over her old mileage of 40,000 miles a year. Still, that’s nearly double the national average, so Sheryl needs something that’s at least somewhat durable.

I don’t think a Civic is a good pick. Civics are extremely hearty cars, but I’m not sure it would give Sheryl the image she’s looking for. Likewise, early 2010s Accords are often seen as great first cars, so I’m not sure that will also complete the mission as desired. I know Sheryl also loves the Hyundai Genesis, but will the Hyundai badge turn people off? I also adore Stephen’s suggestion for a highly depreciated Jaguar, but I’m positive my wife will get murdered by repair costs.

The Legacy, Veloster, and Mazda3 are Sheryl’s bucket list cars, so those would be considered in spite of how anyone feels about them.

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Since we have direct access to the people who hate the iQ, we started polling them on my cars. I have like 13 crappy cars, so I can easily sell some or give one to Sheryl. Apparently, the most “lawyer” car in my fleet is the BMW E61 wagon that I bought from the Bishop, but that has over 180,000 miles and is already very finicky. I do not trust that BMW to take Sheryl’s beatings without breaking in a hilariously expensive way.

The three cars that both line up with the image goal and with Sheryl’s own desires are the BMW E39, a Lexus LX470, and a Lexus LS400. E39s are easy to find in decent condition for cheap enough. But Sheryl has deep concerns about long-term reliability, which is fair. The two Lexus (Lexi? Lexuses?) are great ideas, but I’ve been gobsmacked at old Lexus values.

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Most of the Lexus in my local area have well over 100,000 miles, and their sellers are still demanding $7,000 to $8,000 for them. I could have sworn that these were $3,500 cars back in 2019.

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The 2002 LS 430 above was wearing this in its window. Photo: The Bishop

Anyway, I have found some affordable Avalons, Priis, Camrys, and some newer Honda Accords. What’s stopping us from moving forward is just being unsure. I don’t want to blow a ton of cash on a car that fails at improving Sheryl’s image, or worse, is a car she ends up hating.

The shortlist for now is a Toyota Avalon, a BMW E39, a Toyota Prius, a Subaru Legacy, or a Honda Clarity. But we cannot seem to make a decision for fear of making the wrong decision. It’s funny because I’ve purchased cars entirely on impulse before. But that’s me. I can get away with buying a dumb car. My wife doesn’t have that luxury, so I want to get this right.

Whew, it sure took a long time to get here! Now I want to turn it over to you. What car should she buy? Should she just tell my mom and her haters to buzz off? What car would you expect someone who functions like a public defender to drive? Please help me, my brain is melting from the indecision.

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Diana Slyter
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Diana Slyter
3 hours ago

When you’re trans and your partners trans and your mom’s major concern is the looks of her car, that’s a win!

FormerTXJeepGuy
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FormerTXJeepGuy
3 hours ago

I like the LS400 idea.

Considering she’s still doing 25k miles a year though, maybe a V8 is the wrong choice. I’d look for an ES Hybrid or Avalon Hybrid. If not that, just a standard ES300/350 or Avalon would be a great choice and more economical than the LS.

An Acura TSX would be a solid choice too. Or another Prius.

Ham On Five
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Ham On Five
1 hour ago

Acura TSX Wagon

solid, wagon, priced about right, unusual
(yes, I still regret selling mine)

Last edited 1 hour ago by Ham On Five
Warcabbit
Warcabbit
3 hours ago

You want a car that says something, and the thing is, that message may not be lawyer, as long as it’s acceptable.
Prius says ‘concerned about the environment’, and that’s an acceptable face to show.
Subaru says either ‘old money’ in certain areas, or ‘athletic’
Toyota says ‘I own a car that is reliable’ but it says so very loudly.
(my knee-jerk instinct was Camry Hybrid – I had a V6 Camry that I used to eat Mustangs in.)
Lexus says ‘I own a classy reliable car’.

Cody Pendant
Cody Pendant
3 hours ago

I’d say the lexus CT200h, which is basically the lexus version of the Prius. She drives a lot. Save gas. And it will most likely have cruise control

Beachbumberry
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Beachbumberry
3 hours ago
Reply to  Cody Pendant

Oh this is a really good suggestion. Theyre smart looking too

Cody Pendant
Cody Pendant
3 hours ago
Reply to  Beachbumberry

And the Lexus version never got the stigma of the Prius

Beachbumberry
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Beachbumberry
3 hours ago
Reply to  Cody Pendant

Yea absolutely. I saw a blue one the other day and forgot how good they looked

PresterJohn
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PresterJohn
3 hours ago
Reply to  Cody Pendant

Awesome suggestion and can be had cheaper than many Lexuses

A4A
A4A
3 hours ago

This just made me feel bad for Sheryl. It’s bad enough that clients and colleagues are judging her for her car but your mother? She doesn’t deserve this crap from anyone, let alone a relative who is supposed to love (or at least be civil to) her. Sheryl should get a new car because SHE wants one, everyone else can take their unsolicited opinions and get stuffed.

That being said… If she’s wants something eco conscious but also a little exotic, Fisker Karmas are cheaper than you might think! Not quite as low as your budget but if you can swing for $15-20k I found several low mileage examples within that range.

It’s bougie enough to impress even the most snobby clients or corporate lawyers, yet in a way it’s also not too ostentatious because a lot of people will have no idea what it even is. Perfect reliability won’t be its thing but hey, at least she’s used to quirky cars already!

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Cody Pendant
Cody Pendant
3 hours ago
Reply to  A4A

As someone who also drives a ton every year, I would suggest a manufacturer that’s still in business.

Nsane In The MembraNe
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Nsane In The MembraNe
3 hours ago

Alright so the first order of business is….what the fuck? We’ve all made plenty of jokes about people and their cars and stuff here but most of the time it’s playful. I cannot even begin to fathom insulting someone IRL for what they drive. Who the fuck cares? When I see professionals driving beaters my thought is always “they don’t have a car payment, good for them”.

Obviously there are exceptions, like my corporate attorney buddy with 718 GT4 RS who burns obscene amounts of money flaunting his wealth…but the vast majority of people I know that meet traditional standards of success (money, having happy families, being experts in their fields, etc) don’t waste their money on flashy cars.

My other high powered attorney friend who comes from a family with Texas oil money drives a 2010s Tiguan. My uncle who’s an anesthesiologist who owns his own medical practice drives a Santa Fe. The VP where I work has always driven Priuses. My father in law who’s a retired CFO has only ever driven Hondas and Toyotas. I could keep going.

I think people that haven’t ever been successful or been around successful people associate flashy cars with wealth. It’s a surface level understanding that comes from our hyper consumerist society. In reality the vast majority of the people you see driving $70,000 luxury cars aren’t actually successful. They’re regular folks like us that are over leveraging themselves financially and pissing money away on leasing.

I’m not even saying this to take digs at anyone necessarily, in fact I just kind of find it sad. It’s all an illusion and all you’re doing by taking on that $999 a month lease is funneling the money you do have upward. Real luxury and success is not having a car payment.

But anyway, to respond to the question at hand a used Lexus or Acura is probably the answer. They look nice, they are nice, and upkeep isn’t going to be too much trouble.

FormerTXJeepGuy
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FormerTXJeepGuy
3 hours ago

One of my best friends is a City Attorney in southern California, and he drives a Camry.

Nsane In The MembraNe
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Nsane In The MembraNe
3 hours ago

My old man owns and runs his own architecture firm and has for 20+ years. I’m not trying to brag or flex or anything (it’s his money not mine, and it’s not like he just gave his kids credit cards linked to the company coffers) but he’s done very, very well for himself and is about to enjoy a lavish retirement.

He didn’t buy a new luxury car for himself until 2023. Up until that point he mainly drove modestly spec’d Grand Cherokees and would occasionally buy a heavily depreciated luxury sedan for himself that he’d drive as a treat. Naturally he buys my mom whatever she wants, but up until 2023 he was almost always pulling a 2014 GC into his fancy parking space at work.

He finally caved and ordered an X5 50e that we poured over every detail on two years ago. He went back and forth about whether he deserved it for weeks and frequently moans about the depreciation. But anyway…my point stands. The vast majority of actual rich people don’t waste money on cars.

Not to brag or anything, but I could go out and finance an M3 or base Cayenne or something if I really wanted to. But why the fuck would I do that? It’s literally setting money on fire and I have an 18 month old to worry about and I drive 6,000 miles a year. I feel 0 shame in driving a farting Hyundai crossover that’s about to be paid off, and I’ll have no shame in continuing to drive it until it’s too small for us.

And then? I’m just gonna get a Honda Passport and drive it until I can hand it off to my kids to drive. Maybe at that point I’ll consider something fancier, but until then…why? I’d rather put the money I’d be burning into an IRA.

FormerTXJeepGuy
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FormerTXJeepGuy
2 hours ago

My Dad was the same way. Despite doing well enough to retire at 55 (which was in 2005!) he was driving a 2003 Grand Cherokee up until 2023… and the only reason he gave that up was it was 2wd from when he lived in California and repairs were starting to get too frequent. Even then he just bought a Honda Passport.

After a few years of leasing luxury cars and fancy things (being in the car business they like you to have big car payment’s) I followed his example this year and bought a 2022 Accord that I’m gonna drive into the ground.

Beachbumberry
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Beachbumberry
3 hours ago

It’s interesting right? My close friend is a finance exec at an international food distribution corp and comfortably makes nearly 7 figures a year and he drives a hail damaged taos

Nsane In The MembraNe
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Nsane In The MembraNe
3 hours ago
Reply to  Beachbumberry

I worked for a school system for years and the principal where I worked, who’s a very big deal in the DC education scene, drove a freaking Malibu. I joked with him about it a couple times and he was like “it works, why should I waste money on something else?”.

10001010
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10001010
3 hours ago

First I’d like to extend a heart-felt “SCREW YOU” to anyone and everyone who thinks they have the right to tell someone else that they’re “driving the wrong car“. Seriously.

Anyhow, I don’t think you can go wrong with a Lexus or the Avalon but I think the Legacy would be surprise hit. It’s rare enough that you don’t see them every day but still respectable.

H4llelujah
H4llelujah
3 hours ago

Jesus Crimany what a bunch of shit to go through over a vehicle.

I completely understand though, I dealt with this a lot at my last job. I even got called into the office once, because I had taken my Rolex and slung it around the 4wd shifter in my shitty old Jeep.

People that judge one’s character based on outward appearances already piss me off, when they have the balls to comment on it to your Face?

Ugh. Dude I hate that for you so much.

But I know what it’s like, to have family, your flesh and blood, people that you KNOW to be amazing people who want what’s best for you, to have an opinion that just sucks.

It’s hard. I really think they’re wrong, but I understand the circumstances.

If she can forgive Toyota for their janky ass car, she should get a CT200H. For those in the know, it’s a fancy Prius. For those not, it’s a Lexus. I suggest that slutty shade of Dark red with a tan interior. I’m a hillbilly, and even I have to respect that color scheme as superior.

My personal pick though? If she wants to look “lawyerly” and still have a pretty fun rig that’s affordable, easy to work on, and just about invincible, go with an AWD Chrysler 300S.

I wouldn’t go with black, that’s trying to hard. Gunmetal gray, or that Slutty red again. This time over black interior though, Chrysler interiors are at their best in black.

1978fiatspyderfan
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1978fiatspyderfan
3 hours ago

I believe the Cadillac DTS vehicles are getting cheaper by the day and if you can find a decent one they look quite lawyerly. And quite fun to drive saw one local at 120000 miles looked great

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Aaron Martin Cygnet

H4llelujah
H4llelujah
3 hours ago

This would be the funniest thing I’ve ever seen.

Carbon Fiber Sasquatch
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Carbon Fiber Sasquatch
3 hours ago
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Mr. JeniTalia
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Mr. JeniTalia
3 hours ago

Oh my god this made me snort, I love it!

Rich Hobbs
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Rich Hobbs
3 hours ago

IMHO… recommend A Toyota Camry Hybrid. Still a sure bet! Rented one on 2024. Was impressed with gas mileage, range, comfort, and even had good power. Well maintained ones go 200k with no major problems. Be a plus if you can find one private party and it comes with all maintenance records. I worked for Toyota Service twice for quite a few years. If I was looking for a dependable transportation appliance this would be my choice.
Good luck and Happy New Year!!

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Hgrunt
Hgrunt
3 hours ago

I’d like to recommend: Lexus RX400h or early RX450h. They have space, reliability, comfort and “lawyer” cachet, without the perceived pretention of a European car. Best of all, they tend to price around the mid-teens, at least in California

As a bonus, they get good MPG for its size class, somewhere in the mid 20s for the 400h and high 20s for the 450h, according to Fuelly data

Slower Louder
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Slower Louder
3 hours ago

Put Lexus back on list, I don’t care which.

RallyDarkstrike
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RallyDarkstrike
4 hours ago

“my wife is looking for a new car that fits her career a little better”

No offense intended Miss Merc, to you or your wife, but that seems like a silly reason to change cars (reliability issues on your iQ aside – I can understanding replacing it due to those)

I think everybody should just drive what they want if it makes them happy and other people’s thoughts be damned. Buying a fancier car won’t make your wife any better or worse at her job – she’s damn good at it already!

1978fiatspyderfan
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1978fiatspyderfan
3 hours ago

In a perfect world but there is a reason very few CEOs have full facial tattoos

Frank C.
Frank C.
3 hours ago

Don’t see a connection between career and what you drive. Of course, I’ve always held one exception…if you’re in the construction trades or a rancher or farmer, I’d expect a truck. It’s logical.

Spikersaurusrex
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Spikersaurusrex
2 hours ago
Reply to  Frank C.

My second exception is if your job involves driving clients from place to place. In that case, I think it’s necessary to have something they aren’t afraid to be seen in or afraid to ride in. It doesn’t have to be luxury, a Camry is fine.

Ranwhenparked
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Ranwhenparked
1 hour ago
Reply to  Frank C.

Eh, when I was in nonprofit fundraising and looking at a pre-owned Jaguar, my boss flipped out and told me no effing way could I show up at an event in a Jag and ask people for money, even though it was half the price of his new Jeep, so I bought a new Mustang for more money instead and it was a non issue

Had a similar thing happen when I was a bank manager, heard second hand that one of my peers in the division thought it was inappropriate that I was driving a Chevy. It was a newer Camaro, the guy that came from drove a LaCrosse, some people are just dumb and not worth listening to

Alphalone
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Alphalone
4 hours ago

Taken aback with how people would behave from just a car. If it weren’t you saying this I wouldn’t have believed it.

I’d say get a Lexus if image is so important, but if she ends up making it big in a firm, then get an iQ back and really rub in that its her car and that no one got to tell her what to do

1978fiatspyderfan
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1978fiatspyderfan
3 hours ago
Reply to  Alphalone

Not good career advice. Maybe make it big and use the IQ as a weekend vehicle.

AllCattleNoHat
AllCattleNoHat
4 hours ago

The newest and lowest mileage Lexus ES300/330/350 that fits within the budget. It does everything necessary in this case without spending more than you need.

As far as your editorial staff is concerned, ask them if their wives would let them hire a lawyer that drives what they suggest if it was their own freedom on the line…Sheesh.

1978fiatspyderfan
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1978fiatspyderfan
3 hours ago

Does the state pay her for probono work? And just when are the clients and other lawyers actually seeing her car?

AllCattleNoHat
AllCattleNoHat
2 hours ago

Theres’s a minumum expectation that will pay off in respect and confidence but no need to go overboard. A used Lexus is in reality not very expensive. Sheryl likely could practice law in sweats and a pair of Crocs but likely already dresses more appropriately without being draped in Chanel. Same thing. It’ll cost less overall to spend a little more if that makes sense.

1978fiatspyderfan
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1978fiatspyderfan
3 hours ago
Reply to  AllCattleNoHat

Exactly although I looked and I didn’t see any decent Lexus for under $10k.

M SV
M SV
4 hours ago

It probably ultimately comes down to field of practice. My sister is an attorney focused on employment and immigration who offten was litigating against the eeoc who would bring up cars during depositions painting her as the rich firm corporate attorney. So everytime the client says she drives an old Honda she goes a buys a new crv and keeps the old one in their fleet.
I knew a defense attorney that went from a decent car in a 2 door first gen rav 4 to a string of the worse vehicles know to man. He also started started getting sanctioned while he was driving Altimas and quests then he got a Kia hybrid and things started going good for him then he bought an e39 off some lawyer friend and it left him stranded everywhere so he went back to kias.

So perhaps Prius, Avalon, mid 2000s lexas. Or Hyundai /Kia product of the last 15 years. Maybe a Genisus.

Frank Wrench
Frank Wrench
4 hours ago

Wow! My first thought is to get another nicer iQ and fuck what anyone else thinks. Get a windshield banner that says “My Awesome Ride”

Ok I’ll try too be helpful. How about an Audi TT? Small, fun to drive, not that common.

MATTinMKE
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MATTinMKE
4 hours ago

First step, tell the haters exactly where and how far they can shove their opinions. After that, go get a nice Lexus.

Skurdnin
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Skurdnin
4 hours ago

Whatever happened to the million-mile LS400? it would be perfect

Pentreath
Pentreath
4 hours ago

Lincoln MKZ Hybrid. Very cheap, reliable, and looks respectable.

Sly Bob
Sly Bob
4 hours ago

She should buy whatever she wants to buy as it’s not your mom’s or anyone else’s business but her’s.

MATTinMKE
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MATTinMKE
4 hours ago
Reply to  Sly Bob

This.

Goof
Goof
3 hours ago
Reply to  Sly Bob

/thread

Only actual real answer.

J Hyman
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J Hyman
4 hours ago

Prius or Avalon. Either will eat the miles will minimal headaches. The Clarity is just a bad Prius, and the BMW is a money pit. Legacy: solid maybe.

Warcabbit
Warcabbit
3 hours ago

It’s interesting how cars have reputations that can say something that overrides their numbers. A Prius can be more acceptable than a Lexus 200h

1978fiatspyderfan
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1978fiatspyderfan
3 hours ago

Wow a Prius isn’t a lawyer car it is a vehicle that says you have standards and principles not many other cars give you an out.

TW Hansen
TW Hansen
4 hours ago

As the proud owner of a Lexus ES300h, I recommend the Lexus ES300h. Mine is a 2014 at 206k miles and it still radiates “stealth wealth” while being a big fluffy couch that gets 34mpg. There’s a Lexus hybrid for every price point. The UX, CT, and even the HS are all great choices if she wants something smaller

Hgrunt
Hgrunt
3 hours ago
Reply to  TW Hansen

I’ve been shopping the RX450h as a potential daily, myself. It’d be more comfortable in traffic than my 2007 Mazdaspeed3, have room for snowboarding and friends and get the same or better mpg than my MS3

1978fiatspyderfan
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1978fiatspyderfan
3 hours ago
Reply to  TW Hansen

Please post under $10k lexuses

Ranwhenparked
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Ranwhenparked
4 hours ago

A Yugo GVX

Warcabbit
Warcabbit
3 hours ago

Honestly, people think they’re old Golfs till you tell ’em

1978fiatspyderfan
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1978fiatspyderfan
3 hours ago

I’m thinking you suggest a Yugo to the wife you will be having a long talk about why you hate her and don’t want her to succeed. Just my humble opinion

Ranwhenparked
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Ranwhenparked
1 hour ago

Yes, I think they have. Also, everbody needs a Yugo sometime

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